“Navigating Holiday Challenges” addresses the emotional and relational difficulties many face between Thanksgiving and Christmas, especially amid strained relationships, LGBTQIA+ tensions, grief, and temptation. Drawing from Psalm 139, John 16:33, and Philippians 4:8, the article emphasizes self-awareness, heart preparation, and surrendering burdens to Jesus. It encourages believers to plan for challenging interactions, choose where to focus their thoughts, and rely on God’s truth for peace. Through intentional prayer and trust, the holidays can be approached with grace, resilience, and Christ-centered hope.
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2026 Summer Newsletter
The Summer 2026 First Stone Ministries newsletter centers on the theme of idolatry and inner child work. Women's Minister Bronwyn Welch offers a biblically grounded call to wholehearted devotion, warning against the subtle ways idols compete for our hearts. Office Administrator Joseph Thiessen shares a vulnerable personal account of reconnecting with his wounded childhood self through Husband Material Academy. Director Laura Leigh Stanlake contributes a warm anniversary reflection honoring 33 years of ministry and the many faithful people who shaped First Stone's story.
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Fifty Years of Faithfulness
In this heartfelt reflection, First Stone Ministries Director Laura Leigh Stanlake looks back on 33 years of ministry — from her introduction to Jeff Janes at a wedding to joining staff full-time in 1997. She honors the many staff members and volunteers whose unique gifts shaped the ministry's culture of honesty, hospitality, and healing. Laura's reflection is a tribute to community as the vehicle God consistently uses to bring hurting people into His presence and toward restoration.
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Regaining the Lost Voice of my Childhood
In this personal reflection shared by First Stone Ministries, Joseph Thiessen describes his journey through Husband Material Academy — a men's ministry program built around emotional healing rather than accountability alone. Through exercises like meeting his childhood self in imagination, writing blessing letters, and spending intentional time reconnecting with the boy he once was, Joseph began to recover a voice that had long been silent. He describes it as the most intentionally healing experience he has ever encountered.
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What Competes for Our Hearts? The Trouble of Idols
In this biblically rich article from First Stone Ministries, the author explores how idolatry — loving anything more than God — divides our allegiance and draws our hearts away from Him. Using passages from the Psalms, Isaiah, the Gospels, and the letters of Paul, the piece calls readers to honestly examine what they seek for comfort, approval, control, or security apart from God. The answer is not mere self-improvement, but wholehearted repentance and a full return to the Lord.
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What is Changing, and Why
Marking 50 years of ministry, First Stone Ministries announces a thoughtful evolution in how it communicates and ministers. While remaining firmly grounded in biblical conviction and the belief that healing is found in Jesus Christ alone, the ministry is adopting warmer, more accessible language, refreshing its website, and shifting internally toward Scripture-based identity formation rather than self-assessment. The goal is clear — to meet people where they are, welcome their whole story, and walk with them patiently toward freedom and wholeness in Christ.
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Holding Love and Truth When It’s Challenging
In this thoughtful article from First Stone Ministries, the author — a parent personally navigating a child's gender identity questions — examines how cultural pressure has redefined empathy as agreement rather than understanding. Drawing on Romans 1, 1 Corinthians 13, and the cautionary example of Aaron, the piece calls believers to hold love and truth together without yielding to coercive demands. True empathy, the author concludes, does not affirm what is contrary to God's will — it points people to Jesus.
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The Problem with Unforgiveness
“The Problem with Unforgiveness” warns that refusing to forgive carries severe spiritual consequences, as Jesus teaches in Matthew 6:14–15. Unforgiveness blocks prayer, fosters spiritual dryness, opens doors to the enemy, and reflects a graceless heart. Drawing from Acts 8:22–23 and June Hunt’s Forgiveness, the article details harmful traits—bitterness, pride, judgment, vengefulness—that poison relationships with God and others. By contrast, forgiveness reflects God’s nature, breaks captivity to sin, and restores freedom, intimacy, and spiritual vitality in the believer’s life.
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The Great Pronoun Debate: Should I Use Someone’s Preferred Pronouns?
Laura Smalts argues that using preferred pronouns contrary to biological sex conflicts with God’s intentional design of male and female in creation. She highlights purposes for sex distinctions—fruitfulness, complementary gifting, and whole‑body sexual differentiation—alongside research on the brain’s rapid recognition of sex. Smalts contends affirming cross‑sex identity harms truth and obscures God’s glory reflected differently in men and women. Practically, she advises kindness, restraint with pronouns, using given names cautiously, asking questions like Jesus, and prioritizing respectful, gospel‑centered conversations.
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Testimonies on YouTube
Curated testimonies on our YouTube channel. We hope you are blessed by these.
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Porn & Sex are Women's Issues Too!
Host Garry Ingraham talks with guest Laura Leigh Stanlake.
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2024
A Thrill of Hope
“A Thrill of Hope” invites readers to return to Advent with renewed expectation, reflecting on Christ’s first coming in humility and His promised return in glory. Drawing from Isaiah 26, Luke 21, Romans 8, and Lamentations 3, it explores the vulnerable yet steadfast nature of hope rooted in belief, not sight. The devotional urges believers to fix their desires on Jesus, rejecting misplaced expectations, and persevering in trust. True hope—anchored in His presence and promises—produces joy, peace, and eager anticipation of redemption.
Nov 11
2024
The Effects of Abuse on a Family
“My Story” recounts one woman’s lifelong journey through deep personal and family trauma, beginning with her sons’ abuse by their grandfather and her own childhood abuse by a brother. For decades, she carried grief, shame, and strained relationships until counseling with First Stone Ministries helped her process pain biblically. In 2024, God opened a door to reconcile with her repentant brother, offering hope for her yet-unbelieving sons. Through faith, prayer, and steadfast love, she demonstrates Christ’s power to heal, restore, and redeem.
Nov 11
2024
We Can Trust God
Reflecting on Isaiah 26:1-3, this devotional unpacks the promise of perfect peace for those whose minds are “stayed” on God. Drawing from Hebrew meaning, “stayed” implies leaning, resting, and relying on Him for strength and support. Citing Matthew Henry’s commentary and related scriptures, it reminds believers that Jesus Himself is our peace (Ephesians 2:14). Trusting Him fully allows us to release our burdens, remain anchored in His unshakable truth, and experience God’s sustaining Shalom, even in difficult and uncertain circumstances.
Oct 18
2024
2024 Fall Newsletter
The Fall 2024 First Stone Ministries newsletter features a powerful personal account of overcoming family trauma and abuse, emphasizing support, forgiveness, and maintaining loving relationships. It introduces the new “Living Free” curriculum for spiritual growth, shares ministry demographic highlights, explains strategies for trusting God, and reviews a book on navigating LGBTQ topics through faith. The newsletter also provides updates on support groups and administrative tools, equipping readers with hope, encouragement, and practical resources for spiritual and relational healing.
May 30
2024
Recommended Books: Gender Dysphoria
From a Christian perspective, gender dysphoria is real psychological distress that warrants compassion, patient care, and truth held together, affirming every person’s dignity as an image bearer while upholding God’s good design of male and female revealed in creation and Scripture. Faithful responses prioritize identity in Christ, pastoral support, and counseling that aligns self-perception with embodied sex rather than transition pathways. For deeper study, see recommended reading on theological, pastoral, and testimonial resources addressing gender dysphoria.
May 30
2024
A Mother's Reflections on Her Transitioning Son
This powerful reflection shares a mother’s experience as her son transitions to a female identity, revealing layers of grief, fear, guilt, and unwavering love. She describes the emotional toll, family tensions, and spiritual wrestling while holding fast to her faith and hope in God’s redemption. With honesty and compassion, she navigates the pressure to accept or reject, choosing instead to trust God’s timing and truth. Her story offers comfort and solidarity to parents facing similar journeys.
May 30
2024
Some Trans Q&A Responses
“What Is Transgender?” defines the term as a perception-based disconnect between inner gender identity and biological sex, contrasting it with related terms. The article explains God is spirit—not male or female—yet created humanity male and female in His image, equally valuable but gloriously different. Scientific and biblical evidence affirm binary design. Addressing parental dilemmas over name and pronoun changes, it urges truth spoken with kindness, rejecting affirmation of false identity while seeking Holy Spirit guidance to navigate relationships with love and integrity.
“Keeping the Conversation Open with Your Child” equips Christian parents to respond biblically and with compassion when a child shares life choices that conflict with their faith. Offering practical and spiritual guidance—asking forgiveness for reactive words, praying for humility, processing grief, guarding against idolatry, and leaning on God’s Word—it encourages maintaining respectful dialogue while trusting the Holy Spirit’s work. Through patience, emotional honesty, community support, and reliance on God’s promises, parents can preserve connection, witness faithfully, and grow spiritually in challenging seasons.
May 17
2024
2024 Summer Newsletter
The Summer 2024 First Stone Ministries newsletter centers on a mother’s personal experience with her son’s gender transition and shares Christian guidance for parents whose children come out as LGBTQ. The publication includes practical steps for responding with grace, maintaining open communication, and upholding biblical beliefs. Readers find insights on gender identity, recommended resources, book suggestions, and support group information. The newsletter emphasizes trusting God, processing grief, and engaging with loved ones compassionately amid changing family dynamics.