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“Keeping the Conversation Open with Your Child” equips Christian parents to respond biblically and with compassion when a child shares life choices that conflict with their faith. Offering practical and spiritual guidance—asking forgiveness for reactive words, praying for humility, processing grief, guarding against idolatry, and leaning on God’s Word—it encourages maintaining respectful dialogue while trusting the Holy Spirit’s work. Through patience, emotional honesty, community support, and reliance on God’s promises, parents can preserve connection, witness faithfully, and grow spiritually in challenging seasons.

Differing Views on Christianity, Identity and Homosexuality where there is an onslaught of the promotion of "gay Christianity" in the Church today. The differing view chart reveals the differences in belief and approach and is helpful for those who need to understand and be warned of those who promote false teaching, or lacking in fullness for HOPE.

There have many studies to try and prove that people are born gay. NONE have given results, although much speculation in the media and from Hollywood since Simon LeVay's terrible study results released in 1991. A new study of a Human Genome-Wide Association Study of the largest sample ever to date, almost 500,000 reveal NO ONE IS BORN GAY!

“In His Image” is a documentary created to help churches navigate pressing cultural questions about gender, sexuality, and Christian faith. The film addresses questions like “Can you be gay and be a Christian?” and “Did God make me this way?” by combining personal testimonies, scriptural teaching, and scientific insights. Produced by American Family Studios, it seeks to confront the rise of LGBT-affirming theology, advocate a biblical approach to sexuality, and provide practical, compassionate support for those wrestling with sexual and relational struggles.

In this article, Stephen Black calls on Church leaders to reject the growing trend of affirming "gay Christian" identities and same-sex attraction as legitimate orientations. He argues that genuine love requires both mercy and justice — not compromise — and that true grace is always transformational. Drawing on Scripture and the example of Christ, Black warns that embracing cheap grace theology ultimately harms the very people the Church claims to love, leaving them in spiritual bondage rather than leading them to freedom.

“This is the Way God Made Me: A Scientific Examination of Homosexuality and the ‘Gay Gene’” challenges the popular belief in a genetic cause for homosexuality. The article reviews the outcomes of the Human Genome Project, noting the absence of evidence for a definitive “gay gene.” First Stone Ministries examines cultural narratives, summarizes peer-reviewed research, and highlights the biblical understanding of sexuality. The article ultimately calls readers to reject genetic determinism and affirms hope for change through faith in Christ.

“Why Many Go Back: Giving Some Answers Why Defectors Embrace Homosexuality” analyzes reasons why certain individuals revert to homosexuality after professing change through Christian faith. First Stone Ministries contrasts those who remain steadfast in repentance with those who adopt a “Christian” gay identity. The article explores personal motivations, societal pressures, and theological confusion contributing to returns. It emphasizes the importance of spiritual vision and biblical conviction for lasting transformation, warning of cultural narratives that undermine perseverance in traditional Christian sexual ethics.

“Does God Hate Homosexuals?” by Dan Case addresses a common misconception, affirming that while God opposes homosexual acts, He deeply loves every individual, including those who experience same-sex attraction. The article distinguishes between condemning sin and loving people, stressing that no one is without hope or outside God’s grace. Emphasizing biblical teaching and compassion, First Stone Ministries offers support for those desiring change, presenting Jesus Christ as the source of forgiveness, healing, and new life.

“Hypothalamic Hypothesis” examines whether homosexuality has a biological origin, focusing on Simon LeVay’s study suggesting a brain structure difference in homosexual men. The article highlights the study’s small sample size and inconclusive results, emphasizing behavior’s potential effect on the brain. It argues that even if biological influences exist, Christian teaching and ministry response to homosexuality should remain consistent, valuing both truth and compassion. First Stone Ministries urges careful analysis of scientific claims and affirms ongoing hope for personal transformation.

“What Would Jesus Say to Ellen?” presents First Stone Ministries’ reflection on how Jesus would respond to Ellen DeGeneres, a prominent figure in LGBTQ culture. The article asserts Jesus would approach Ellen with genuine compassion and love while upholding biblical teachings on sexuality and repentance. By referencing Scripture and the example of Jesus’ interactions with others, the piece encourages both truth and grace. It invites readers to consider the call to love individuals without compromising core Christian convictions or scriptural integrity.

“Ex-Gay: Fact, Fraud, or Fantasy” tackles the intense debate regarding whether sexual orientation can change and if “ex-gay” testimonies are genuine. The article highlights critics who claim the “ex-gay” label is fraudulent, rooted in the belief that homosexuality is innate and immutable. Contrasting these views, First Stone Ministries shares personal accounts and spiritual reflections supporting the possibility of transformation, emphasizing scriptural conviction. The piece invites readers to discuss faith, identity, and truth in a contested cultural landscape.

“Help, My Roommate’s Gay” addresses the challenges Christian individuals may face when discovering a roommate’s homosexuality. The article discusses initial emotional reactions—such as shock, confusion, or fear—and provides practical, scripturally-based counsel on responding with both conviction and compassion. First Stone Ministries emphasizes the importance of prayer, open communication, and setting healthy boundaries, while upholding biblical views on sexuality. The piece encourages believers to maintain Christlike love, avoid judgment, and seek God’s wisdom, all while expressing authentic faith in daily living.

“Cruel Joke or Medical Anomaly?” challenges the idea that homosexuality is a physiological or divinely intended variation. Wilkins argues that human anatomy is universally designed for heterosexual expression and contends that if homosexuality were natural, physiological contradictions would not exist. The article explores theological and medical perspectives, stating that labeling homosexuality as “natural” either implies a cruel joke by God or a medical anomaly. Ultimately, sin and redemption through Christ are presented as the answer for all humanity.

“Is There a Gay Gene?” reviews prominent genetic studies, such as the Human Genome Project and twin research, concluding there is no conclusive evidence that homosexuality is caused by genetics alone. The article explains how media coverage often exaggerates scientific findings and clarifies that respected researchers attribute sexual orientation to a complex interplay of genetic, psychological, and social factors. First Stone Ministries advocates for a Christian understanding, emphasizing that sexual orientation is not immutable or predetermined by one’s genes.

“Questions I’m Asked Most About Homosexuality” provides straightforward responses to common inquiries on the topic. The article explores whether homosexuality is innate or the result of nurture, discusses if change is possible, and examines both biblical and cultural debates surrounding sexual orientation. By sharing ministry experiences and referencing Scripture, the piece offers guidance on recovery, compassion towards homosexually-oriented individuals, and personal responsibility. First Stone Ministries presents a traditional Christian framework, encouraging respectful engagement and practical support for those seeking answers.

Excerpted from Coming Out of Homosexuality by Bob Davies and Lori Rentzel, this article shared by First Stone Ministries traces the developmental factors that contribute to homosexual and lesbian identity across key life stages — from infant bonding and family dynamics to grade school peer pressure, sexual abuse, puberty, and early adulthood. Rejecting the idea that homosexuality is genetically determined, the authors present a compassionate, stage-by-stage framework for understanding same-sex attraction and the roots that can be addressed through healing and faith.

“When Someone You Love Is Gay” addresses the emotional impact and confusion families face after learning a loved one is gay. It likens the discovery to grief, describing shock, guilt, anger, and loss. The article provides practical steps—controlling emotions, forgiving, maintaining communication, demonstrating love, letting go, praying, and seeking God’s perspective—offering hope for both family and the gay individual. The message emphasizes God’s ability to heal, transform, and work through even the hardest circumstances, encouraging faith-filled, loving responses.

“Can Homosexuals Change?” reviews psychiatric and psychological opinions, presenting evidence that homosexuality is not genetically predetermined and can be changed. The article shares expert views—such as John Money, Charles Socarides, and Masters & Johnson—on the learned nature of homosexuality and the effectiveness of therapy. It references studies showing that motivated individuals may experience behavioral, identity, or orientation shifts, without psychological harm. The message: change is possible through personal choice, professional help, and spiritual commitment for those who desire it.