Aug 14
2026
Fifty Years of Faithfulness
In this heartfelt reflection, First Stone Ministries Director Laura Leigh Stanlake looks back on 33 years of ministry — from her introduction to Jeff Janes at a wedding to joining staff full-time in 1997. She honors the many staff members and volunteers whose unique gifts shaped the ministry's culture of honesty, hospitality, and healing. Laura's reflection is a tribute to community as the vehicle God consistently uses to bring hurting people into His presence and toward restoration.
In this milestone message marking First Stone Ministries' fiftieth year, Executive Director Laura Leigh Stanlake reflects on God's sustained faithfulness and calls the ministry to seek His direction with intentionality and humility. Drawing on the cautionary examples of Israel's covenant with the Gibeonites and Rehoboam's ill-fated counsel, she emphasizes the importance of prayer, wise counsel, and patient discernment over quick decisions. As First Stone looks ahead, the ministry's desire remains simple — to depend on the Lord and follow where He leads.
“The Morning Jesus Declared His Mission: A Reflection for Advent” imaginatively retells the Sabbath when Jesus read Isaiah 61 in Nazareth and announced, “Today this Scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing.” The article reflects on how easily people miss God’s nearness in familiar places and how Christ’s mission defines Advent: bringing good news, binding up the brokenhearted, and freeing captives. It then connects this mission to nearly fifty years of ministry at First Stone, highlighting Christ’s ongoing restoration and inviting renewed hope and dependence on His Spirit.
“When the Holidays Hurt: Dr. Townsend on Grieving Well” explains grief as God-given work that turns open wounds into integrated memories rather than repeated re-experiences of pain. Drawing from John Townsend’s Beyond Boundaries, Welch outlines six components of grieving well: acknowledging attachment, accepting lack of control, naming what was valued, seeking comforting people, allowing sadness, and giving grief time. The article especially encourages those facing heavy holidays to be honest with God and receive His nearness in their sorrow.
“Breaking Free from the Fear of Man” defines the fear of man as an approval addiction that shapes decisions, emotions, and even obedience to God. Using Proverbs 29:25 and biblical examples like Saul and Aaron, the article shows how people-pleasing derails leaders and everyday believers alike. Stanlake traces roots in childhood messages, social pressure, personality, and pain, then outlines steps toward freedom: preferring God, knowing identity in Christ, recognizing triggers, inviting accountability, and growing in community that fears the Lord together.
“The Words We Hide Behind” uses images from The Wizard of Oz, fig leaves, and Aaron’s golden calf to show how believers cover secret sin with spiritual-sounding words. Drawing from Romans 13, Jeremiah 17, 1 John 1, 2 Corinthians 6–7, and Hebrews 12, it confronts pornography, idolatry, and self-deception. The article calls readers to step out of darkness, embrace transparency, set boundaries, seek accountability, and walk in the light for lasting freedom.
“Boundaries with Adult Prodigal Children” explains how God models clear boundaries and consequences, and how Christian parents can follow His example with their wayward adult sons and daughters. Drawing from personal experience with three prodigal children, the author outlines house rules, financial limits, and key areas like communication and living arrangements. The article encourages parents to stop enabling, surrender their children to God, and hold firm in love, trusting His greater care and purposes.
“What’s Eating You: The Rot of Envy” exposes envy as a destructive spiritual force, likened in Proverbs 14:30 to rotting bones. Using Cain’s downfall and warnings from Galatians and Proverbs, it shows how envy blinds, divides, and tempts toward sin. Scripture calls believers to reject comparing themselves to others and instead pursue the fear of the Lord, contentment, and gratitude. The antidote lies in intimacy with God, walking by the Spirit, and trusting His timing, favor, and perfect care for each life.
“Healing the Ache of Fatherlessness” examines the profound impact of absent or distorted fatherhood on identity, relationships, and one’s view of God as Father. Whether through neglect, abuse, or emotional distance, father wounds distort worth and hinder intimacy with God. Citing Scripture and personal testimony, the article points to forgiveness as the doorway to truth and restoration. Through the Holy Spirit’s work, believers can exchange shame for sonship, discovering a Heavenly Father who delights in them and offers lasting healing and wholeness.
“The Dangers of Affirming What is Clearly Wrong” reflects on Paul’s warning in 1 Timothy 4 about the peril of a seared conscience—losing sensitivity to the Holy Spirit through repeated compromise. Using the example of families affirming a prodigal’s LGBT identity, it warns that embracing what contradicts God’s Word invites deception and spiritual deadness. Over time, conviction can fade into full affirmation of sin, with eternal consequences. The article calls believers to stand firm in truth, resisting cultural pressure while remaining faithful to Christ.
“Healing Wounds” explores the journey of trusting Jesus to bring restoration to deep emotional and spiritual pain. Drawing from Isaiah, Hebrews, and personal testimony, it highlights the need to invite Christ into wounded places, reject destructive coping mechanisms, and replace lies with God’s truth through Scripture and prayer. The Holy Spirit provides guidance and strength, enabling believers to repent, renew their minds, and embrace God’s love. Healing is often hard and messy, but God is always present, approachable, and eager to help.
“From Loneliness to Abiding” shares the journey of a single believer navigating loneliness through intentional attachment to Jesus. Drawing from Attachment Theory, Scripture, and practical habits, it emphasizes that abiding in the Vine builds relational stability and emotional resilience. Recommended books, daily Bible reading, and resources like The Bible Recap foster connection with God’s love. By cultivating Scripture engagement, spiritual curiosity, and grace-filled rhythms, seasons of solitude become opportunities for deepening intimacy with Christ—the primary relationship that shapes all others.
“Parents, Prodigals, and Holidays” offers biblical encouragement for navigating grief, strained relationships, and prodigal children during the season. Drawing from verses like Isaiah 46:9, Nehemiah 8:10, Psalm 147:3, and Habakkuk 3:17-19, it urges believers to anchor joy and strength in God’s sovereignty and past works. Practical steps—gratitude journaling, intentional prayer, worship, Scripture meditation, and sharing testimonies—help refocus hearts on His goodness. By recalling His provision and promises, Christians can experience renewed hope, peace, and celebration, even in painful seasons.
“Navigating Holiday Challenges” addresses the emotional and relational difficulties many face between Thanksgiving and Christmas, especially amid strained relationships, LGBTQIA+ tensions, grief, and temptation. Drawing from Psalm 139, John 16:33, and Philippians 4:8, the article emphasizes self-awareness, heart preparation, and surrendering burdens to Jesus. It encourages believers to plan for challenging interactions, choose where to focus their thoughts, and rely on God’s truth for peace. Through intentional prayer and trust, the holidays can be approached with grace, resilience, and Christ-centered hope.
“A Thrill of Hope” invites readers to return to Advent with renewed expectation, reflecting on Christ’s first coming in humility and His promised return in glory. Drawing from Isaiah 26, Luke 21, Romans 8, and Lamentations 3, it explores the vulnerable yet steadfast nature of hope rooted in belief, not sight. The devotional urges believers to fix their desires on Jesus, rejecting misplaced expectations, and persevering in trust. True hope—anchored in His presence and promises—produces joy, peace, and eager anticipation of redemption.
“My Story” recounts one woman’s lifelong journey through deep personal and family trauma, beginning with her sons’ abuse by their grandfather and her own childhood abuse by a brother. For decades, she carried grief, shame, and strained relationships until counseling with First Stone Ministries helped her process pain biblically. In 2024, God opened a door to reconcile with her repentant brother, offering hope for her yet-unbelieving sons. Through faith, prayer, and steadfast love, she demonstrates Christ’s power to heal, restore, and redeem.
Reflecting on Isaiah 26:1-3, this devotional unpacks the promise of perfect peace for those whose minds are “stayed” on God. Drawing from Hebrew meaning, “stayed” implies leaning, resting, and relying on Him for strength and support. Citing Matthew Henry’s commentary and related scriptures, it reminds believers that Jesus Himself is our peace (Ephesians 2:14). Trusting Him fully allows us to release our burdens, remain anchored in His unshakable truth, and experience God’s sustaining Shalom, even in difficult and uncertain circumstances.
“Keeping the Conversation Open with Your Child” equips Christian parents to respond biblically and with compassion when a child shares life choices that conflict with their faith. Offering practical and spiritual guidance—asking forgiveness for reactive words, praying for humility, processing grief, guarding against idolatry, and leaning on God’s Word—it encourages maintaining respectful dialogue while trusting the Holy Spirit’s work. Through patience, emotional honesty, community support, and reliance on God’s promises, parents can preserve connection, witness faithfully, and grow spiritually in challenging seasons.
In “Put Away in Order to Put On,” Laura Leigh Stanlake unpacks 1 Peter 4, urging Christians to embrace Christlike endurance and spiritual transformation. She explains the biblical call to “put away” old habits—like sensuality and addiction—to fully “put on” the life of Christ. Stanlake weaves scriptural context, personal testimony, and counseling experience to encourage listeners to find hope through the Spirit’s power, resist temptation, and live as powerful witnesses for Christ in a challenging culture.
“Biblical Sexuality and Gender” is a comprehensive sermon series presented by Trinity Baptist Church, Norman, Oklahoma, featuring Dr. Robert Gagnon. The series explores sexuality and gender from a biblical viewpoint, covering the Old Testament, Jesus’ teachings, Paul’s witness, and real-world applications. Designed to equip believers, it addresses topics such as identity, God’s intentional design, and responding to cultural trends. The practical, compassionate approach aims to help families and individuals navigate sensitive issues by rooting understanding and guidance in Scripture.
“Preferred Pronouns: Responding with Faithfulness and Humility” addresses the growing tension for Christians when asked to use pronouns contrary to biblical beliefs. The article emphasizes God as Creator, the role of truth-telling, and the importance of loving engagement without compromising faith. It explores motivations, real-life scenarios, and the necessity of courage, humility, and trust in God when facing relational and societal pressures. Readers are encouraged to balance compassion with conviction and to trust God with the outcomes of faithful obedience.
Differing Views on Christianity, Identity and Homosexuality where there is an onslaught of the promotion of "gay Christianity" in the Church today. The differing view chart reveals the differences in belief and approach and is helpful for those who need to understand and be warned of those who promote false teaching, or lacking in fullness for HOPE.
“Surrender Your Child Back to God” speaks directly to hurting parents of prodigal children, using the parable of the prodigal son to offer hope and direction. The article urges parents to stop trying to control their child’s repentance and instead surrender the child to God, confess personal sin, and pursue Christ wholeheartedly. It emphasizes that salvation belongs to God alone and encourages parents to focus on worship, discipleship, and the broader mission of making disciples.
In his article "The Pervasive Influence of Unbelief: Helping Parents Navigate the Difficulty of Unanswered Prayers," Jim Farrington addresses the challenges parents face when their prayers for their LGBT-identified children seem unanswered. He acknowledges the frustration and confusion that can arise, leading to a crisis of faith. Farrington emphasizes the importance of identifying and confessing any unbelief that may take root during these times. He encourages parents to remain steadfast in their faith, trust in God's timing, and continue seeking Him, even when outcomes are uncertain. 
“Dangerous Affirmation: The Threat of ‘Gay Christianity’” by M.D. Perkins exposes how efforts to reconcile Christian faith with homosexuality are reshaping theology, biblical interpretation, and church life. The book reveals strategies used by LGBT activists—rethinking doctrine, identity, and the meaning of church—to influence even conservative congregations. Perkins aims to equip believers with biblical clarity, urging steadfastness amid shifting values and controversial teachings. The message calls Christians to recognize spiritual challenges and respond with conviction, compassion, and commitment to God’s Word.
There have many studies to try and prove that people are born gay. NONE have given results, although much speculation in the media and from Hollywood since Simon LeVay's terrible study results released in 1991. A new study of a Human Genome-Wide Association Study of the largest sample ever to date, almost 500,000 reveal NO ONE IS BORN GAY!
In this scholarly article shared by First Stone Ministries, Dr. Robert A. J. Gagnon of Houston Baptist University systematically dismantles the argument that the Greek word arsenokoitai in 1 Corinthians 6:9 refers only to the molestation of boys. Drawing on Levitical law, early Jewish writings, linguistic evidence, and the broader New Testament context, Gagnon demonstrates that the term broadly prohibits all male-male sexual intercourse. He concludes that recent revisionist interpretations reflect a lack of biblical scholarship rather than sound exegesis.
“The War on Gender,” published by First Stone Ministries, analyzes the cultural and legal shifts around gender identity through a conservative biblical lens. The article critiques gender-affirming treatments and transgender ideology, referencing studies challenging their efficacy. It argues that modern gender discourse conflicts with Christian teachings on male and female identity, warning of societal and spiritual consequences. First Stone Ministries ultimately calls for a return to traditional biblical views on gender and sexuality for individual and societal wellbeing.
This article provides practical, biblically grounded advice for students battling pornography. Key strategies include seeking God and trusted friends for support, taking a digital detox to reset habits, using an alarm clock to break phone dependency, and employing the 15-minute rule to redirect temptation. The guide stresses the value of confession, repentance, and enjoying life as God designed it, aiming to help students build lifelong habits of purity and find satisfaction beyond fleeting temptations.
“Hope for the Homosexual” outlines First Stone Ministries’ approach to helping individuals overcome homosexuality and sexual struggles through faith, counseling, and support groups. Featuring the story of Stephen Black, a former homosexual transformed by his relationship with Christ, the article emphasizes that change is possible with biblical guidance and community. It documents the ministry’s origins, its compassionate approach to sexual brokenness, and testimonies of lives changed, ultimately offering hope and practical help rooted in Christian conviction.
"How many of you feel that, within the last year, you’ve been through the most intense spiritual warfare you've ever experienced?" Almost the entire congregation raised their hands. It is as if the enemy knows that his time is short and he is coming against the people of God with great intensity. (Revelation 12:12)
"The Terrors of Hell" by William C. Nichols presents a thorough biblical case for the reality and eternity of hell, arguing that the doctrine is widely neglected yet critically important. The article explores why hell is necessary given God's infinite holiness and perfect justice, describes its torments in vivid scriptural detail, and addresses both believers and unbelievers with urgency. Its ultimate aim is not to frighten readers into faith, but to drive them toward genuine repentance and surrender to Jesus Christ.
James Ryle's article, Fire! Fire!, serves as a heartfelt warning about the dangers of ignoring the biblical teachings on hell. He argues that true love involves alerting others to impending danger, much like warning someone of a house fire. Ryle laments the growing disbelief in hell's existence and duration, asserting that such skepticism undermines the gravity of sin and the necessity of salvation through Jesus Christ. The piece is a passionate call to acknowledge the seriousness of eternal judgment and to act with compassion and urgency in sharing the gospel.
In this January 2016 message shared at Abundant Grace Community Church in Gainesville, Florida, ordained minister Stephen Black draws on his personal testimony to explore how the Word of God brings salvation and transformation. Grounding his message in key scriptures — including Psalm 107:20, Mark 4:1–20, and 1 Peter 1:21–23 — Black reflects on the saving and healing power of Scripture, particularly for those seeking freedom from homosexuality and sexual brokenness through faith in Jesus Christ.
After the ruling of the Supreme Court on June 26, 2015 Laura Leigh Stanlake, Director of Women's Ministries attended a local church service where a pastor gave a message in responding to so-called "gay marriage". There was a problem! Homosexual identity and Christianity were being integrated as one legitimate identity-- a "gay Christian" identity. Laura responded with this article in the Winter 2015 First Stone Newsletter.
Christopher West, the world's most recognized teacher on John Paul II's Theology of the Body, presents a sweeping biblical case that erotic desire was designed by God to point humanity toward Heaven. Far from being something to suppress or indulge, sexual longing is the fuel of a rocket meant to launch us toward eternal union with Christ. Shared by First Stone Ministries, this message challenges the Church to recover a beautiful, incarnational understanding of the body, gender, and God's design for human sexuality.
This short video presentation argues that government promotion of natural marriage between one man and one woman is rooted in biology and social benefit, not discrimination. It outlines how natural marriage creates and best raises children, stabilizes society, and reduces crime and poverty — benefits same-sex marriage cannot replicate. Addressing concerns about equality and tolerance, the video concludes that distinguishing between behaviors with different societal outcomes is not bigotry, but a reasonable and necessary function of government.
First Stone Ministries’ article explains their departure from Exodus International, citing theological and leadership shifts in Exodus that conflicted with biblical convictions. Choosing to resign in 2012, First Stone joined the newly formed Restored Hope Network, a coalition dedicated to traditional Christian sexual ethics and transformational ministry. The piece affirms their ongoing mission: proclaiming freedom from unwanted same-sex attractions through Christ, providing a safe and supportive environment, and collaborating with like-minded ministries to equip the church and serve those seeking healing.
In his article "So-Called 'Gay Marriage' is No Marriage at All," Stephen Black of First Stone Ministries argues that attending same-sex weddings implies endorsement of unions he believes are contrary to biblical teachings. He contends that such ceremonies represent "defiling covenants" and advises Christians to refrain from participation to maintain their faith's integrity. 
In “Everyone Needs This Ministry – A Letter from a Pastor,” ordained minister Jason Murray endorses First Stone Ministries for its unwavering biblical fidelity and compassionate outreach to the broken. He recounts personal transformation through their confidential, Scripture-based counseling and leadership. The ministry enabled growth in grace and holiness, providing what Murray’s pastorate alone could not. After years engaged with First Stone, he urges all Christians to know and support ministries like this for genuine healing and maturity.
In this article, Laura Leigh Stanlake of First Stone Ministries addresses the longing for genuine community by offering practical, Scripture-based guidance on building healthy friendships. Rooted in the biblical command to love, the article explores five levels of relationship — from acquaintance to covenant friendship — and examines the character traits and heart attitudes that either nurture or destroy connection. Written from personal experience of loneliness and healing, it encourages disciples to focus on becoming a good friend rather than simply finding one.
Judith Reisman’s “Kinsey’s Criminal Psychopathology in American Law” exposes the profound effect of Alfred Kinsey’s disputed research on U.S. law and culture. Reisman documents how Kinsey’s reliance on data from criminals and sex offenders—often gathered through unethical methods—was used to liberalize sex crime laws. She contends that Kinsey’s influence led to the normalization of sexual deviance, weakening legal protections for women and children and distorting public policy, with repercussions still evident in American society.
In this article, Stephen Black calls on Church leaders to reject the growing trend of affirming "gay Christian" identities and same-sex attraction as legitimate orientations. He argues that genuine love requires both mercy and justice — not compromise — and that true grace is always transformational. Drawing on Scripture and the example of Christ, Black warns that embracing cheap grace theology ultimately harms the very people the Church claims to love, leaving them in spiritual bondage rather than leading them to freedom.
This powerful poem tells the story of a boy whose absent father left a deep emotional void, driving him to seek love and affirmation from other men — and eventually into the homosexual lifestyle. After finding no lasting peace through relationships or political activism, he dies alone. The poem closes with an urgent appeal to the Church to respond not with condemnation but with the compassion of Christ, reminding believers that genuine love has the power to heal and restore.
“This is the Way God Made Me: A Scientific Examination of Homosexuality and the ‘Gay Gene’” challenges the popular belief in a genetic cause for homosexuality. The article reviews the outcomes of the Human Genome Project, noting the absence of evidence for a definitive “gay gene.” First Stone Ministries examines cultural narratives, summarizes peer-reviewed research, and highlights the biblical understanding of sexuality. The article ultimately calls readers to reject genetic determinism and affirms hope for change through faith in Christ.
“When Did Idolatry Become Compatible with Christianity? Why It Matters” challenges modern Christians to recognize subtle forms of idolatry infiltrating church life and personal faith. The author traces how societal shifts and complacency can lead believers to justify or overlook idol worship, whether material, ideological, or spiritual. The article urges readers to reclaim biblical standards, remain faithful to God alone, and understand idolatry’s dangers. By confronting compromise, Christians are called to renew genuine devotion and uphold transformative, scriptural Christianity.
“Affirming Biblical Orthodoxy on Homosexuality as Sin” presents First Stone Ministries’ conviction that the Bible unambiguously identifies homosexual acts as sinful. The article contrasts historic Christian teaching with recent efforts to legitimize same-sex relationships within the Church. It urges believers to avoid adopting labels like “gay Christian” and instead embrace identity in Christ. Emphasizing compassion alongside biblical authority, the article warns against cultural compromise and underscores the spiritual, psychological, and social consequences of redefining sexual morality.
“Healthy Sexuality for Today’s Generation” explores how biblical principles can guide young people in navigating modern sexual pressures. The article emphasizes God’s original design for sexuality, encouraging spiritual growth and personal transformation over cultural trends. It provides practical advice for overcoming temptations and relational challenges, highlighting the importance of community support, scriptural truth, and the Holy Spirit’s healing. First Stone Ministries aims to equip individuals, parents, and churches to model and teach sexual integrity, fostering hope and restoration rooted in Christian faith.
In "The Gospel According to Jesus Christ and the 'Gay Christian?'," Stephen Black of First Stone Ministries argues that the concept of 'gay Christianity' is inconsistent with biblical teachings. He emphasizes that the gospel calls for repentance from all forms of sin, including homosexual behavior, and warns against teachings that suggest one can maintain a homosexual identity while being a faithful Christian. Black underscores the necessity of adhering to scriptural truths and cautions against adopting man-made theologies that, in his view, compromise the integrity of the gospel. 
“Our Common Bond: The Presence of Idolatry and the Hope to Overcome” illuminates the universal struggle with idolatry, highlighting how even Christians are vulnerable to counterfeit gods—anything that claims the heart’s ultimate loyalty besides God. Drawing from Romans 1 and Colossians 3, the article urges readers to identify and confront their idols, recognizing their deceptive power. First Stone Ministries points to deep transformation and freedom found through Christ, advocating for Spirit-empowered healing, renewed devotion, and a return to biblical faithfulness.
“True Justice: Halting the Push for Gay Marriage” presents First Stone Ministries’ case against legalizing same-sex marriage. The article asserts that redefining marriage undermines society’s common good, particularly children’s need for both a mother and father. It describes same-sex marriage as a cultural counterfeit, contends true justice is rooted in God’s design, and warns of social consequences. Ultimately, the ministry calls for compassion and Christian conviction in defending traditional marriage as essential to healthy families and communities.
“Why Many Go Back: Giving Some Answers Why Defectors Embrace Homosexuality” analyzes reasons why certain individuals revert to homosexuality after professing change through Christian faith. First Stone Ministries contrasts those who remain steadfast in repentance with those who adopt a “Christian” gay identity. The article explores personal motivations, societal pressures, and theological confusion contributing to returns. It emphasizes the importance of spiritual vision and biblical conviction for lasting transformation, warning of cultural narratives that undermine perseverance in traditional Christian sexual ethics.
“Weapons of Spiritual Warfare,” compiled by Stephen Black for First Stone Ministries, teaches believers how to effectively combat spiritual opposition using God-given resources. Drawing from passages like 2 Corinthians 10 and 1 Peter 5, the article highlights core tools: relying on God’s Word, using prayer, operating in the gifts of the Holy Spirit, and demonstrating love. It encourages memorizing Scripture, standing firm in faith, and leveraging spiritual gifts for protection, healing, and Christlike victory over every trial and attack.
“Does God Hate Homosexuals?” by Dan Case addresses a common misconception, affirming that while God opposes homosexual acts, He deeply loves every individual, including those who experience same-sex attraction. The article distinguishes between condemning sin and loving people, stressing that no one is without hope or outside God’s grace. Emphasizing biblical teaching and compassion, First Stone Ministries offers support for those desiring change, presenting Jesus Christ as the source of forgiveness, healing, and new life.
Steve Gallagher of Pure Life Ministries examines the strategic blueprint laid out in "After the Ball" by Marshall Kirk and Hunter Madsen, which outlined a three-step psychological campaign to shift public opinion on homosexuality through desensitization, discrediting opponents, and media-driven conversion. The article traces how this strategy has been successfully implemented through television, film, mainline church infiltration, and hate crimes legislation — arguing that the ultimate goal is the complete silencing of Christian voices that uphold a biblical view of sexuality.
“I Am But a Sparrow,” published by First Stone Ministries, uses the biblical metaphor of a sparrow to reflect on human frailty and God’s attentive care. The author shares personal struggles with insignificance and vulnerability, pointing to Jesus’ assurance that not even a sparrow falls without the Father’s notice. Readers are invited to rest in God’s unconditional love, find peace amid trials, and remember their immense value to God. The article inspires trust, comfort, and renewed faith in Christ’s promises.
“Why They Fall” discusses the tragic reality of spiritual and moral failures among Christian leaders and believers. The article explores how hidden sin, pride, neglect of spiritual disciplines, and a lack of accountability lead to public scandals and personal breakdowns. Drawing on biblical principles, First Stone Ministries urges transparency, repentance, and humble reliance on God’s grace as safeguards against stumbling. The piece encourages individuals and churches to foster honest community, diligent prayer, and unwavering commitment to Jesus for enduring faithfulness.
“Changing Perspectives on Homosexuality” by First Stone Ministries explores how shifting cultural attitudes, media influence, and misinformation impact beliefs about homosexuality. The article contends that many popular views disregard biblical teachings and are shaped by social trends rather than scriptural truth. It emphasizes the importance of rejecting stereotypes, seeking wisdom, and maintaining compassion while remaining committed to the conviction that transformation and freedom are possible through faith in Christ. Readers are encouraged to pursue restored identity and hope through a Christian worldview.
“Hypothalamic Hypothesis” examines whether homosexuality has a biological origin, focusing on Simon LeVay’s study suggesting a brain structure difference in homosexual men. The article highlights the study’s small sample size and inconclusive results, emphasizing behavior’s potential effect on the brain. It argues that even if biological influences exist, Christian teaching and ministry response to homosexuality should remain consistent, valuing both truth and compassion. First Stone Ministries urges careful analysis of scientific claims and affirms ongoing hope for personal transformation.
“Teens, Porn and Solo Sex: Sex Talk in a Sex-Crazed Society” warns of the dangers of early exposure to pornography and masturbation, highlighting their deep, long-term impact. The article tackles the misconceptions and shame surrounding these topics in Christian communities, urging honest conversation, biblical understanding, and accountability. Teens are encouraged to seek genuine intimacy with God and others, recognizing that fulfillment is found in Christ—not in false intimacy or secret habits. The piece offers hope for healing and purity.
“Why I Won’t See Brokeback Mountain,” authored by Tim Wilkins for First Stone Ministries, addresses the widespread buzz around the acclaimed film while explaining the author’s personal and theological reasons for abstaining. Wilkins argues that consuming media normalizing homosexuality conflicts with his Christian faith and convictions. The article reflects on the cultural influence of entertainment, urging believers to prioritize biblical standards over popular trends. It encourages readers to be discerning about media choices, holding fast to scriptural truth and spiritual integrity.
“Jesus Speaks on Homosexuality” presents First Stone Ministries’ perspective on how Jesus addresses issues of sexuality. The article explains that while Jesus upholds biblical marriage and sexual morality, his teachings focus on love, mercy, and repentance. Readers are encouraged to avoid harsh condemnation and instead extend grace while upholding scriptural truth. The narrative discusses relational brokenness, the roots of homosexual behavior, and the hope for healing through Jesus. Compassionate pastoral care and biblical fidelity are emphasized throughout the message.
“Responding to Pro-Gay Theology, Part I: Social Justice Arguments” addresses how social justice themes are used to advocate for LGBTQ inclusion within Christianity. The article critiques arguments that equate homosexuality with identity and victimization, and disputes the notion that sexual orientation cannot be changed. First Stone Ministries responds with biblical references, emphasizing compassion without affirming pro-gay theology. The piece urges readers to challenge social narratives while approaching all individuals with humility and love, reflecting a traditional Christian worldview.
“Responding to Pro-Gay Theology, Part 2: Social Justice Arguments” examines religious justifications for homosexuality, such as the claim that Jesus never addressed it or that God’s presence in affirming churches signals His approval. The article argues these points rely on subjective experience rather than scriptural truth, stressing that God’s gifts are signs of grace, not automatic endorsement. First Stone Ministries urges returning to biblical authority, warning against prioritizing “niceness” or human understanding over clear scriptural boundaries and Christian conviction.
“Responding to Pro-Gay Theology, Part 3: Scriptural Arguments” explores how advocates of pro-gay theology challenge traditional interpretations of Scripture regarding homosexuality. The article examines common revisionist arguments for Genesis, Sodom and Gomorrah, Levitical law, and Romans 1—contrasting them with historical Christian teaching. It critiques alternate readings as strained or inconsistent with textual and cultural evidence, defending the view that biblical references to marriage and sexual ethics consistently affirm heterosexual unions. The piece urges a return to traditional, contextual biblical interpretation.
“A Call to ‘Ex-Gays’ to Press Toward the Higher Mark” urges those leaving homosexuality not to quit in discouragement but to keep pressing toward spiritual maturity in Christ. The article acknowledges how lonely and difficult this journey can be, while warning against using present struggle as an excuse to give up. Instead, it calls readers to perseverance, holiness, and a higher goal rooted in Jesus, framing the Christian life as an ongoing pursuit rather than a finished achievement.
“What Would Jesus Say to Ellen?” presents First Stone Ministries’ reflection on how Jesus would respond to Ellen DeGeneres, a prominent figure in LGBTQ culture. The article asserts Jesus would approach Ellen with genuine compassion and love while upholding biblical teachings on sexuality and repentance. By referencing Scripture and the example of Jesus’ interactions with others, the piece encourages both truth and grace. It invites readers to consider the call to love individuals without compromising core Christian convictions or scriptural integrity.
“Ex-Gay: Fact, Fraud, or Fantasy” tackles the intense debate regarding whether sexual orientation can change and if “ex-gay” testimonies are genuine. The article highlights critics who claim the “ex-gay” label is fraudulent, rooted in the belief that homosexuality is innate and immutable. Contrasting these views, First Stone Ministries shares personal accounts and spiritual reflections supporting the possibility of transformation, emphasizing scriptural conviction. The piece invites readers to discuss faith, identity, and truth in a contested cultural landscape.
“My Child” addresses the emotional and spiritual journey of Christian parents whose child identifies as homosexual. The article acknowledges the intense feelings of grief, confusion, and disappointment parents may experience, while urging reliance on prayer, biblical truth, and God’s enduring love. It encourages maintaining open communication, showing unconditional support, and trusting in God’s power to work in their child’s life. First Stone Ministries offers compassionate wisdom, practical counsel, and hope for families seeking restoration and faith-filled perseverance amid difficult circumstances.
“Help, My Roommate’s Gay” addresses the challenges Christian individuals may face when discovering a roommate’s homosexuality. The article discusses initial emotional reactions—such as shock, confusion, or fear—and provides practical, scripturally-based counsel on responding with both conviction and compassion. First Stone Ministries emphasizes the importance of prayer, open communication, and setting healthy boundaries, while upholding biblical views on sexuality. The piece encourages believers to maintain Christlike love, avoid judgment, and seek God’s wisdom, all while expressing authentic faith in daily living.
“Overcoming Fear, Anxiety & Stress” provides readers with faith-based solutions for navigating emotional challenges. The article examines the spiritual and practical causes of fear, anxiety, and stress, urging individuals to rely on God’s promises, prayer, and biblical wisdom for breakthrough. First Stone Ministries emphasizes the importance of cultivating trust in God’s love and sovereignty, while offering clear steps to foster inner peace and victory over anxious thoughts. This resource inspires believers to pursue healing and courage grounded in Christ.
“The Greatest Gift” by Tom White explores the life-changing impact of receiving Jesus Christ as the central treasure of the heart. The article challenges readers to identify and uproot personal idols—counterfeit sources of meaning and security—and instead set their hearts on the things above. Drawing on Scripture and real-life testimonies, First Stone Ministries demonstrates that true hope, freedom, and lasting transformation come from fully embracing God’s love and presence. It encourages believers to pursue spiritual wholeness through deeper devotion to Christ.
The Christian married man bound by homosexuality bears a double burden. He lives under the power of a sin which brings self-condemnation and a feeling of alienation from God. He also lives with the knowledge that he is bringing a terrible hurt to another human being—his wife. But for this man, victory over homosexuality can bring a double blessing. He can be restored to full fellowship with God, and he can experience the joy of reconciliation with his wife.
“Breaking the Silence on the ‘M’ Word” confronts the stigma and silence around masturbation among Christians. Through real-life testimony and pastoral reflection, the article reveals how shame and secrecy empower harmful habits, arguing that darkness leads to isolation and hopelessness. By encouraging open discussion and reliance on God’s grace, First Stone Ministries urges readers to move beyond embarrassment, embrace compassionate guidance, and seek hope through biblical principles and spiritual support for overcoming struggles with sexuality.
“Freedom Without Faith Cannot Survive” by Dan Puckett discusses the essential relationship between personal freedom and unwavering faith in God. The article argues that freedom is treasured universally, yet it cannot truly thrive apart from spiritual foundations. Drawing from biblical teaching, the piece asserts that lasting liberty depends on Christian convictions and a heart grounded in God’s truth. First Stone Ministries encourages readers to seek freedom rooted in Christ, emphasizing the necessity of faith for resilience, transformation, and sustaining authentic liberty.
“Meditations on Humility: Humility and Confession” recounts a personal journey into the meaning and practice of humility. The article highlights the paradox of pursuing humility, noting how self-awareness can sometimes distance us from true meekness. Drawing on biblical teaching and classical Christian writers, it emphasizes confession—not just of failure, but also of strengths—as vital to spiritual health. The message encourages readers to recognize pride, practice authentic self-reflection, and seek genuine humility as the foundation of a faithful Christian walk.
“Cruel Joke or Medical Anomaly?” challenges the idea that homosexuality is a physiological or divinely intended variation. Wilkins argues that human anatomy is universally designed for heterosexual expression and contends that if homosexuality were natural, physiological contradictions would not exist. The article explores theological and medical perspectives, stating that labeling homosexuality as “natural” either implies a cruel joke by God or a medical anomaly. Ultimately, sin and redemption through Christ are presented as the answer for all humanity.
“The Secret of Forgiveness” examines how holding onto unforgiveness creates burdens that hinder spiritual growth and peace. Drawing from biblical examples and practical testimonies, the article emphasizes that true forgiveness—rooted in humility and confession—frees us from resentment and empowers us to experience God’s transforming love. With support from small group encouragement, First Stone Ministries teaches that forgiving others leads to personal healing, deeper faith, and the restoration of broken relationships, modeling the forgiveness we receive from Christ.
“Unloving Spirit” examines the destructive influence of a spiritual force that breeds self-hatred, guilt, and alienation from God’s truth. The article explains how this spirit causes people to internalize lies, oppose their God-given identity, and struggle with relational and emotional health. It highlights the root causes—such as lack of discipline and inherited patterns—and offers biblical steps to break free: recognizing deception, repenting, and embracing Christ’s unconditional love. The message encourages readers to pursue true self-acceptance and spiritual freedom.
“Is There a Gay Gene?” reviews prominent genetic studies, such as the Human Genome Project and twin research, concluding there is no conclusive evidence that homosexuality is caused by genetics alone. The article explains how media coverage often exaggerates scientific findings and clarifies that respected researchers attribute sexual orientation to a complex interplay of genetic, psychological, and social factors. First Stone Ministries advocates for a Christian understanding, emphasizing that sexual orientation is not immutable or predetermined by one’s genes.
“What is a Biblical View of Transgendered People and Hermaphrodites?” by Sue Bohlin addresses two distinct issues: transgender identity and intersex conditions (hermaphroditism). The article presents First Stone Ministries’ view that God’s intent is for males and females to embrace their biological sex, citing Genesis as foundational. It differentiates between transgender experience and medical intersex conditions, while emphasizing compassion for all people. The message encourages understanding, biblical fidelity, and loving support for those wrestling with gender identity or biological anomalies.
“Finding the Will of God” explores how believers can discern God’s specific direction for their lives amid uncertainty and important decisions. The article emphasizes the importance of knowing Scripture, prayer, and cultivating a daily relationship with God as foundations for discernment. It provides practical guidance, such as seeking wise counsel, practicing patience, and surrendering personal desires. First Stone Ministries encourages readers to trust God’s faithfulness, reminding that genuine peace and assurance are found in pursuing alignment with God’s revealed will.
“Lust” examines how lust is not simply sexual temptation but any strong, consuming desire that becomes out of bounds or imbalanced. The article discusses why lust is so difficult to overcome, highlighting that real change requires honest self-examination, repentance of deeper heart issues, and the pursuit of love over self-gratification. By rooting transformation in the gospel and meditating on Christ’s beauty, believers are encouraged to redirect desires toward godliness, finding true fulfillment and ongoing freedom through spiritual renewal.
“When Do We Need Revival?” examines the conditions that reveal a need for spiritual revival, both personally and corporately. The article highlights warning signs like complacency, loss of passion for God, persistent sin, and prayerlessness. Drawing from biblical examples, First Stone Ministries urges self-examination, repentance, and renewed dependence on God. It encourages believers and churches to respond to spiritual drought by humbly seeking God’s presence, expecting transformation and restoration through genuine revival grounded in Scripture and the work of the Holy Spirit.
In “Crisis in Leadership,” Jack Frost reflects on how leaders often face intensified spiritual opposition in seasons of transition or influence. He identifies core areas where attacks commonly occur—like unresolved sin, relational discord, or pride—and emphasizes the importance of spiritual health, prayer, and community support. Frost encourages leaders to anchor in the Father’s love, maintain integrity with authority structures, and engage in confession and unity. Through deep discipleship and alignment with God’s purpose, leaders can endure and thrive amid crisis.
“Él envió su palabra para sanarnos” presenta la sanidad como una obra de Dios que restaura a los heridos por dentro y por fuera. A partir de textos bíblicos sobre curación, el recurso destaca que la palabra del Señor trae liberación, consuelo y vida nueva a quienes están quebrantados de corazón. También conecta la sanidad espiritual con la esperanza, la oración y la confianza en Cristo, mostrando que Dios sigue obrando restauración en el corazón humano.
“Law and Grace” explores the tension between living by the law and living under grace. The article explains that while God’s laws reveal sin and set standards for practical righteousness, a believer’s standing before God depends on grace and faith in Christ, not on perfect law-keeping. Christians are called to obey Jesus and the Spirit’s convictions, which sometimes go beyond the written law. The message emphasizes spiritual transformation and daily dependence on Christ for true holiness and freedom.
“A Battle Plan Against Porn That Works” presents Bill Berry’s personal journey from bondage to pornography to freedom through Christ. The article outlines a proven, step-by-step battle plan rooted in Christian faith, beginning with surrender to Jesus, confession, and repentance. Readers are equipped with Scripture-based techniques—like memorizing and reciting key verses, seeking God’s strength, and staying spiritually vigilant—to resist temptation. The testimony demonstrates that genuine deliverance and enduring victory are possible for anyone willing to trust and follow God completely.
“The Source of Evil Thoughts” explains that evil thoughts originate from the heart—defined as the center of attitudes and conscience—rather than external influences alone. Drawing on Scripture, the article discusses how defilements, unaddressed sin, and negative experiences embed within the heart, leading to ongoing temptation. It outlines specific sins that defile, how evil thoughts gain footholds, and provides a faith-based process of confession, cleansing, and surrender to Jesus. Readers are encouraged to pursue purity of heart for spiritual health and freedom.
“The Ten Commandments of Deaf Culture” presents ten foundational guidelines for non-Deaf individuals engaging in Deaf spaces. These commandments urge respect for Deaf culture—avoiding imposition of hearing norms, focusing on eye contact, consistent sign language use, and never treating Deaf individuals as handicapped or incapable. Additional points include refraining from roles like speech therapist or grammar teacher, viewing Deaf as an ethnic group, and affirming that Deaf individuals can accomplish anything through Christ. The article promotes dignity, equality, and genuine cultural understanding.
“Humility: A Prerequisite to Grace” explores how genuine humility is vital for Christian life and spiritual growth. Drawing on Scripture and classic Christian writers, the article emphasizes that God’s grace is given to the humble, not the proud. True humility means recognizing our neediness, yielding to God, and surrendering pride. It is measured not just before God, but in our relationships with others. Through humble prayer and obedience, believers access transformative grace, overcoming sin and growing closer to Christ.
“36 Scriptural Reasons to Financial Problems” presents a detailed list of biblical reasons behind economic hardship, accompanied by specific Scripture references for each. Topics include dishonoring parents, pride, laziness, fraud, failing to help the poor, and other moral or spiritual issues. The article advises repentance, breaking generational curses, and restoring accountability with God as part of the path to blessing. Readers are encouraged to reflect on these points and apply biblical principles to achieve financial health and spiritual growth.
“Unhealthy Relationships Among Women and the Journey to Freedom” examines how women’s friendships can drift into emotional dependency or inappropriate intensity, often rooted in unmet childhood needs or relational wounds. The article uses real-life examples to illustrate how exclusivity and boundary issues develop. Practical, faith-based steps are offered for recognizing unhealthy dynamics, seeking support, grieving losses, and establishing new relational limits. Emphasizing God’s desire for healthy connections, the piece encourages honesty, spiritual growth, and a journey toward relational wholeness.
“Forsaking the Gay Identity” addresses how leaving homosexuality requires more than ceasing certain behaviors—it involves a complete transformation of personal identity. The article discusses the dangers and limitations of self-labeling, highlighting that spiritual change is a gradual process achieved through the power of the Holy Spirit. Drawing on Scripture, it underscores the necessity of separating from past influences, enduring the discomfort of identity transition, and ultimately embracing a Christian identity. Readers are encouraged to rely on God’s promises for lasting change and spiritual renewal.
“My Heavenly Friend” by George Müller explores the comforting reality of experiencing Jesus Christ as a constant and personal friend. Müller shares how, even in times of loneliness, pain, and difficulty, believers can turn to Christ for support, comfort, and strength. He describes this relationship as not just a religious concept, but a living, daily companionship that brings peace. Müller urges readers to know Christ habitually as their friend, finding joy and hope as they await His return.
“Devotion: The Heart of Prayer” by E.M. Bounds examines the essence of devotion as an attitude wholly committed to God, essential for genuine prayer and worship. Bounds explains that mere external activities and routines cannot replace a truly devoted heart. He warns against empty rituals, urging readers to infuse every part of life—public, private, and ordinary—with the spirit of devotion. Only then does prayer become powerful, heartfelt, and transformative, sustaining spiritual life and deepening communion with God.
“The Principle of Praying Thrice” by Watchman Nee reveals the biblical foundation behind praying persistently until receiving God’s answer. Drawing from Jesus’ prayer in Gethsemane and Paul’s pleas, Nee highlights that “three times” symbolizes praying as long as the burden remains—not a literal count. This principle applies to personal devotion and corporate prayer meetings, encouraging believers to unite in focused, burdened prayers for each need until peace and clarity are given, fostering powerful intercessory results.
“Justice & Respect” by Bob Davies addresses how churches should respond to homosexuality with both truth and empathy. Davies shares practical insights for pastors, emphasizing the need to offer hope, listen well, and address underlying emotional hurts rather than merely focusing on outward behavior. He recounts experiences of healing, highlights the role of childhood trauma and unmet emotional needs, and encourages churches to foster compassion, affirming God’s power to transform lives while maintaining biblical convictions and genuine respect.
“What Does the Bible Say?” by Bob Davies investigates the biblical stance on homosexuality by analyzing key passages from Genesis, Leviticus, Romans, and the teachings of Jesus. Davies contrasts moral and ceremonial laws, addressing common modern arguments and interpretations. He explains that Scripture defines marriage as a union between man and woman, views homosexual acts as contrary to God’s design, and maintains that the Bible’s moral teachings remain relevant today, despite cultural or scientific trends.
“Devoted Personal Love of Jesus Christ” describes genuine Christian devotion as a personal, fervent love for Jesus that goes beyond outward deeds. The article emphasizes that Christ seeks passionate affection—a blend of awe, familiarity, and sensitivity to His honor—from believers. True love for Jesus is multifaceted: it includes adoration, trust, yearning for His character, and longing for His return. Such love springs from the Holy Spirit and is marked by continuous, heartfelt devotion to Christ above all else.
Excerpted from Coming Out of Homosexuality by Bob Davies and Lori Rentzel, this article shared by First Stone Ministries traces the developmental factors that contribute to homosexual and lesbian identity across key life stages — from infant bonding and family dynamics to grade school peer pressure, sexual abuse, puberty, and early adulthood. Rejecting the idea that homosexuality is genetically determined, the authors present a compassionate, stage-by-stage framework for understanding same-sex attraction and the roots that can be addressed through healing and faith.
“Covenant Friend” by Stephen Black examines the profound meaning of true, Christ-centered friendship. Black describes covenant friendship as marked by forgiveness, unwavering loyalty, compassion, wise counsel, and the willingness to share in joys and pain. He encourages believers to first love Christ, then reflect His sacrificial love by being trustworthy, supportive, and caring friends. The article challenges readers to fulfill Jesus’ prayer for unity and love, highlighting the vital role of deep, faithful friendships in Christian life.
“Directed by Difficulties, Transformed by Trouble” explains the vital role of challenges in the Christian journey. Drawing on biblical wisdom, the article highlights that difficulties—whether from personal choices, external circumstances, or spiritual trials—are tools God uses for refining and growing believers’ character. Instead of seeking comfort alone, Christians are encouraged to trust that every problem is “Father-filtered” for spiritual benefit, reminding readers that God’s ultimate goal is to make them more like Christ through every situation.
“A Tender Heart,” drawing from G.D. Watson’s “Pure Gold,” explains that outward religious zeal and flawless doctrine mean little without tender love. The article shows how true Christlikeness is marked by gentle, empathetic tenderness—avoiding unnecessary hurt, quarreling, or coldness. Such divine tenderness seeks to forgive, encourage, and reflect the affections of Jesus, melting hearts with warmth instead of rigidity. It urges believers to embody God’s forgiving, compassionate spirit, making humility, kindness, and mercy the essence of true holiness.
“Mason's Sayings on Prayer”, compiled by David Smithers, compiles wisdom from John Mason, highlighting that true prayer is born from a humble, broken heart rather than eloquent speech or public recognition. Mason teaches that genuine prayer depends on spiritual sincerity and faith, not ritual or habit. He contrasts the emptiness of outward show with the transforming power of heartfelt devotion, urging readers to seek God’s presence earnestly. Mason’s insights inspire believers to value authenticity, affection, and continuous dependence on God in their prayers.
“A Model for Hurting Parents” explores how the biblical story of the prodigal son provides crucial lessons for Christian parents whose children have strayed. The article acknowledges the deep pain of parental rejection and loss, yet encourages modeling God’s love, relentless grace, and readiness to forgive. It reminds parents that children’s choices do not always reflect parental failure. By maintaining unconditional love, compassion, and forgiveness—even while hurting—parents mirror God’s heart, creating an atmosphere where restoration and hope are always possible.
“Alone With God” by G.D. Watson emphasizes the crucial moments when faith transcends external assistance and enters a deeply personal encounter with God. Watson explains that while others may guide or support, there comes a crisis in salvation and sanctification where only direct communion with God brings assurance and renewal. He encourages readers to seek solitude with Christ, allowing the Holy Spirit to speak personally and powerfully, ensuring salvation is not second-hand but rooted in God’s living presence.
“Apart From Prayer We Can Do NOTHING!” by David Smithers highlights the centrality of Spirit-led, fervent prayer in Christian life and ministry. The article explains that nothing of eternal value happens without persistent intercession, as Jesus modeled through His own passionate prayers. Smithers challenges believers to move beyond routine or superficial prayer, urging them to embrace God’s heart for the lost and to labor in prayer with vision and brokenness. Only through such prayer does God’s Kingdom advance and lives are truly changed.
“Seven Things I Wish Pro-Gay People Would Admit” outlines candid points from the ex-gay community, urging acknowledgment that not all who experience same-sex attraction are content, that change—though incomplete for many—is possible, and that former homosexuals often find joy and peace in heterosexual marriages. The article contends that choosing a heterosexual path is a legitimate right, asks for respect instead of labels, and challenges the authenticity of pro-gay religious endorsements, aiming to invite honest discussion about sexuality and faith.
“Sexual Sin and Bondage: What Does It Look Like To Be Healed?” outlines the biblical process of transformation from sexual brokenness. The article argues that true healing is not instant perfection but a Spirit-led journey marked by growing intimacy with God, behavioral change, and new identity in Christ. It lists signs of authentic recovery—consistent rejection of temptation, dependence on God, emotional maturity, and selfless service—emphasizing that healing is a unique, progressive process shaped by commitment, knowledge, and reliance on God’s grace.
“Does God Really Care?” answers a parent’s anxious question by reflecting on Jesus’ words: God numbers every hair on our heads, signaling astonishing personal care. Each lost strand becomes a reminder that God lovingly passes by, even in the most ordinary moments. The article encourages honesty with God—bringing doubts and pain to Him, trusting that if He cares so deeply for the smallest details, He surely cares for our hearts and struggles each day.
“Are You Still in the Desert?” explores the spiritual parallels between the Israelites wandering in the wilderness and Christians who feel stuck, especially those struggling with unwanted desires or spiritual dryness. The article highlights signs of being “in the desert”—such as ingratitude, negativity, lack of vision, and fear—and offers practical biblical solutions. Through gratitude, setting spiritual goals, and relying on God’s strength, believers can move beyond discouragement, overcome old patterns, and enter the “Promised Land” of deeper faith and freedom.
“Detente y Piensa – Diez Cosas Que los Que Están en el Infierno Arrepentirás” analiza diez remordimientos que experimentan las almas en el infierno, como oportunidades perdidas, pecados no perdonados y separación eterna de Dios y seres queridos. El artículo, basado en pasajes bíblicos, advierte sobre la desesperación y la salvación perdida, animando al lector a rendirse por completo a Jesús. Destaca la gratitud sincera por el sacrificio de Cristo y exhorta a responder con humildad y verdadero arrepentimiento.
“Homosexuals and the Church” discusses the essential role of the church in ministering to individuals with same-sex attraction. Through stories of transformation and expert commentary, Bob Davies highlights the need for love, support, and accountability for those seeking change. The article warns against silence or condemnation, urging congregations to offer practical help, build strong relationships, and foster an atmosphere of grace and truth. Compassion, scriptural faithfulness, and community support are vital for lasting healing and spiritual growth.
In this article, First Stone Ministries' Jeff Janes confronts the harsh, dismissive language Christians often use toward homosexuals — language he describes as a form of ritual sacrifice that destroys rather than redeems. Drawing on Micah 6:8, Matthew 9 and 22, and Hebrews 2, Janes calls the Church to replace self-righteous condemnation with the mercy, gentleness, and love of Christ. He argues that homosexuality is rooted in unmet relational needs — "father hunger" — and that genuine healing comes through compassionate, Christ-centered discipleship.
“Offering Hope to Homosexuals” explores the Christian perspective on homosexuality, stating that while the Bible condemns homosexual acts, it also offers hope for lasting change through faith in Jesus Christ. The article addresses common questions, myths, and misconceptions about homosexuality, discusses causes, and highlights the importance of compassion—not condemnation—for those struggling. It affirms that individuals can experience cleansing, sanctification, and a new identity in Christ, calling churches to provide grace, support, and biblically rooted hope.
“Marriage and the Power of Porn” reveals how pornography undermines Christian marriage by damaging intimacy, distorting perceptions, and fostering secrecy. The article discusses why sexual sin is enslaving, progressive, and difficult to defeat alone, emphasizing the necessity of confession, accountability, and biblical counsel for recovery. Practical advice encourages spouses to foster honest dialogue and resist blame-shifting. Ultimately, the hope of the gospel is highlighted: true restoration, reconciliation, and victory over bondage are available in Christ for struggling couples.
“When Someone You Love Is Gay” addresses the emotional impact and confusion families face after learning a loved one is gay. It likens the discovery to grief, describing shock, guilt, anger, and loss. The article provides practical steps—controlling emotions, forgiving, maintaining communication, demonstrating love, letting go, praying, and seeking God’s perspective—offering hope for both family and the gay individual. The message emphasizes God’s ability to heal, transform, and work through even the hardest circumstances, encouraging faith-filled, loving responses.
In “Christ’s Cry ~ Covenant Love,” Stephen Black examines Jesus Christ’s heartfelt prayer in John 17, emphasizing the importance of covenant love—characterized by loyalty, selflessness, and sacrificial commitment. Black contends that genuine unity in the Church hinges on this love, lamenting the prevalence of broken relationships among Christians. He calls believers to become steadfast “promise keepers,” urging a return to scriptural standards of relational loyalty and healing. The article concludes with a plea to manifest Christlike love as evidence of genuine faith.
Written by an anonymous survivor of nine years of incest, this article shared by First Stone Ministries addresses the shame, false guilt, and long-term damage that childhood sexual abuse causes — and the path to genuine healing through Jesus Christ. The author shares her own journey from rebellion and bitterness to forgiveness and freedom, while offering practical guidance on the nature of incest, the importance of forgiveness, warning signs of abuse, and how parents can protect and equip their children.
“Beginning Bible Study: A Study Through the Word of God” by Milton Green is an in-depth discipleship resource designed to lead believers directly into Scripture for self-examination and spiritual renewal. Addressing themes like temptation, the lust of the flesh, false doctrines, and the “great falling away,” Green contrasts Adam’s failure with Jesus’ victory. The study emphasizes resisting Satan through God’s Word, living in holiness, and bearing the image of Christ. With a focus on obedience over tradition, it challenges readers to become fruitful, Spirit-led followers of Jesus.
“How to Find God” outlines seven essential steps for anyone sincerely desiring a relationship with God, drawn from William Booth’s deep compassion and faith. The process starts with recognizing and sorrowing over sin, openly confessing faults, and fully renouncing all wrongdoing. Seek forgiveness through humble prayer, consecrate your life to God’s service, and receive salvation by trusting in Jesus’s sacrifice. Booth’s method promises lasting joy, peace, and spiritual freedom to everyone who genuinely pursues God’s mercy and love.
“Can Homosexuals Change?” reviews psychiatric and psychological opinions, presenting evidence that homosexuality is not genetically predetermined and can be changed. The article shares expert views—such as John Money, Charles Socarides, and Masters & Johnson—on the learned nature of homosexuality and the effectiveness of therapy. It references studies showing that motivated individuals may experience behavioral, identity, or orientation shifts, without psychological harm. The message: change is possible through personal choice, professional help, and spiritual commitment for those who desire it.
“Who Needs Quiet Time? You Do!” emphasizes that daily alone time with God is vital for authentic Christian living. The article explains true quiet time is not a ritual, but a deliberate choice to deepen relationship and intimacy with God. Addressing common obstacles like guilt and busyness, it encourages believers to readjust their priorities, hopes, and beliefs, highlighting practical steps—prayer, Bible study, journaling, and repentance. Consistent quiet time transforms believers from “duty-bound” to joy-filled children of God.
“Knowing God’s Will” by Winkie Pratney explains how every believer can discover God’s purpose by meeting biblical conditions: sincere desire, humility, clear conscience, and regular prayer. The article outlines three guidance categories—personal (Scripture, Holy Spirit), communal (wise counsel, preaching), and supernatural (visions, divine encounters). Pratney emphasizes surrendering personal desires, resisting temptation, and faithfully listening for God’s direction. The message assures that God delights to reveal His will, empowering believers to live purposefully and bear the image of Christ.
“Responding to Temptation” details practical Christian steps for overcoming sin. The article explains the importance of receiving God’s grace, reckoning yourself dead to sin, and remaining vigilant in spiritual warfare. Readers are urged to recognize when temptations come from within versus demonic attack, respond with aggressive prayer or repentance, and love God more than fleeting pleasures. True victory comes from embracing both humility and spiritual authority—yielded before God like a lamb, but courageous against evil like a lion, trusting Christ for lasting transformation.
“Restoration Through Forgiveness” explains that everyone has painful memories affecting their present, yet true healing comes by embracing biblical forgiveness. The article teaches that forgiveness sets you free from bitterness and emotional bondage, allowing God to restore relationships and spiritual health. Drawing from Paul’s words in Philippians and supported by other scriptural examples, it highlights that forgiveness is done through God‘s enabling power, not forgetting the past but moving forward in freedom, wholeness, and renewed purpose as you press on toward God’s calling.
“The Truth about Sexual Sin” outlines the devastating impact of sex outside of marriage, challenging media myths that ignore real consequences like heartbreak, disease, distrust, addiction, and shattered dreams. Pratney details seven reasons for sexual purity: preventing unwanted pregnancies, protecting against diseases, emotional disappointment, broken trust, diluted intimacy, addictive behaviors, and divorce. He affirms that only God’s design—sex within lifelong marriage—leads to true freedom, healing, and love, urging readers to pursue spiritual restoration and avoid the pain of sexual sin.
“Relinquishment: What Does It Really Mean To ‘Let Go’?” examines the challenging journey of giving up control over loved ones and outcomes, using biblical examples like Hannah and Abraham. The article clarifies that true relinquishment is not abandonment but trusting God’s sovereignty. It outlines key steps—facing limitations, releasing expectations, giving freedom of choice, and embracing emotional freedom. Ultimately, relinquishment brings deeper security in God, liberates us from guilt, and enables healthier, more compassionate relationships rooted in faith.
“Knowing God” examines the difference between awareness of God and truly knowing Him through relationship and obedience. Drawing from Scripture, Farrell Fisher explains how knowing God brings understanding, changing lives and priorities—from self-centeredness and religious routine to devotion and holiness. The article warns against superficial faith and highlights the joy, spiritual assurance, and strength available to those who seek God wholeheartedly, follow Jesus as Lord, and live in daily fellowship with Him through the Holy Spirit.
Winkie Pratney's article challenges readers to view the Bible not as just another book but as a living, divinely inspired text. He points out that the Bible frequently asserts its own divine origin, with phrases like "God said" appearing numerous times throughout its pages. Pratney also notes the Bible's remarkable consistency and the profound influence it has had on individuals and cultures throughout history. He encourages readers to engage with the Bible not merely as literature but as the living Word of God, capable of transforming lives when approached with a sincere heart.
“The Great Falling Away!” by Milton Green confronts the alarming spiritual condition within modern churches. Despite outward signs—growth, supernatural gifts, evangelism—Green reveals a hidden crisis: many have departed from true faith, embracing worldly values and sinful lifestyles. He warns that the church displays a form of godliness but lacks true power, evidenced by rampant immorality and spiritual emptiness. Green urges believers to recognize apostasy, pursue heartfelt repentance, and seek restoration, so Christ’s followers can reflect holiness and authentic transformation.
“But I Can’t Forgive Myself” confronts the struggle of ongoing guilt despite knowing God’s forgiveness. Through real-life stories and biblical examples, the article reveals how painful regret can trap believers in despair, blocking emotional healing and spiritual freedom. True self-forgiveness follows genuine repentance, receiving Christ’s grace, rejecting condemnation, and renewing one’s mind with Scripture. The message asserts there’s no sin too great for God’s mercy; restoration comes by surrendering shame, living in newness of life, and confidently trusting God’s redemptive love.
“Prayer” highlights the extraordinary power and necessity of genuine, persistent prayer, drawing on Jesus’ example and key biblical stories like Hannah and David. The article explains that prayer, especially in moments of desperation and humility, is God’s vehicle for personal and communal transformation—more than words, it’s two-way communication with Him. Through stories of revival and scriptural teaching, readers are challenged to move beyond routine prayer to heartfelt intercession, recognizing that spiritual breakthroughs begin with sincere, sacrificial time alone with God.
“¿Nacido de Nuevo? ¡Examínate!” de Stephen Black insta a los lectores a examinar su fe más allá de rituales religiosos o experiencias emocionales. Explica que el verdadero nuevo nacimiento requiere arrepentimiento, entrega e intimidad diaria con Jesús, resultando en una vida guiada por el Espíritu, marcada por santidad y fruto. Advierte que el pecado habitual, la mundanalidad o la falta de relación con Cristo señalan una conversión falsa. Exhorta a probarse según la Escritura, buscar sinceramente a Cristo y confiar en Su gracia para la transformación y seguridad de la vida eterna.
“Humility” by Andrew Murray highlights humility as the root of Jesus’ nature and the secret of Christian growth. Drawing from Scripture, the article explains how Christ’s incarnation, servant life, and atonement all reflect radical humility—total surrender to God and service to others. Believers are urged to make humility their top spiritual pursuit, following Jesus’ example of lowering oneself, serving without seeking recognition, and renouncing pride. True humility opens the heart to God’s grace, transforming relationships and enabling joyful, fruitful discipleship.
“Others May, You Cannot!” by G.D. Watson explains that believers deeply consecrated to God are often called into a life of self-denial, humility, and unwavering obedience beyond that of others. The Holy Spirit sets unique boundaries—restricting behaviors, ambitions, and recognition—so their faith is forged in hidden places. Despite seeming limitations, God’s jealous love brings daily provision, joy, and spiritual fruit unseen by most. Embracing this personal, sacred relationship means delighting in God’s guidance and yielding to His sovereign will.
“The Father Heart of God” explains how our view of God as Father is shaped by earthly relationships, yet Scripture reveals a loving, generous, and attentive parent who desires intimate connection with each child. Dawson addresses six key misconceptions, illustrating God’s kindness, acceptance, and unconditional love despite human failures. The article urges readers to forgive past hurts, receive God’s unique love, and rest in His presence, emphasizing that true spiritual healing and growth begin by understanding God as the perfect, affectionate Father.